Getting Personal…
I think as bloggers, we’re constantly rethinking our blogs…how do you want it to be and where do you want it to go. Recently I was taking a look at SilverSpoon and rethinking a few things. I never wanted it to be a blog that just featured review after review. I intended it to be a personal space as well as place to inform people about the latest restaurants and my favourite places. So with that in mind I’ve decided to regularly feature a post of a more personal nature so my readers can get to know me as well as the restaurants that I like.
More Travel Focus…
More Frequent blogging…
Redevelopment…
Above all…
Writing a blog is all about being true to yourself and your audience…if there’s certain things you’re not happy with change it. It’s organic, ever changing and will grow with you. So with all that in mind I wanted to kick the week off with a travel focussed post that is also very personal…For some reason I’m a person with a lot of phobias, don’t ask me why, fear is irrational after all. I’ve spent my life trying to kick some of these phobias…let’s be honest some will always remain with you no matter what whereas some can be surmounted, even if’s only by a small act of bravery. Now everyone knows that travel broadens the mind and it is through my love of travel that’s I’ve braved some of these fears and come out on top.
My Fear of Heights
I live in a high-rise block of flats, I’ll happily walk across a bridge, get in a plane and stand on a balcony. If I have my feet on the ground (even in an aeroplane) I’m fine. But I still have an excruciating fear of heights. Now let me be more specific…whats I’m actually scared of is precarious situations for example roller coasters, sky diving, light aircraft.
When Mr S and I were Sydney we decided to take a seaplane to a gorgeous hotel called Jonah’s in Whale Beach. I was terrified…just the thought of that little plane bobbing around in the air…and what if we crashed… but I was determined to do it…and once I was in it wasn’t as scary as I thought it would be…
In fact it was rather wonderful….
And the Sydney Harbour bridge and the Opera house…all while soaring through the sky. And when we reached our destination, I well and truly got the award for bravery as Mr Silver proposed to me on the cliff top.
My Fear of Creepy Crawlies especially Spiders
When Mr S and I decided that we were going to on a epic adventure to Australia my first thought was…but what about the spiders? I’d heard that there were spiders the size of dinner plates in Oz…eeek!! Fortunately I have lots of Aussie friends who reassured me that they rarely, if ever, saw huntsman spiders. Ok fine, but what about in the middle of the rainforest?
Ok, so I do realise it is a bit stupid for someone with a pathological fear of insects to stay in a treehouse in the middle of the Daintree rainforest… but the Silky Oaks hotel looked so beautiful that I knew I had to suck up my fears and just do it!
Every time we left the room I had to have Mr Silver accompanying me…as somehow that would make it better if a spider jumped out at me! At night I made him double check that the balcony doors were locked fast so that nothing could sneak in. But by screwing my courage to the sticking place I was able to appreciate the true beauty of the Australian rainforest….